We are told over and over again that Shopping = Stuff = Happiness. But does it really? Should it?
I for one just don't buy it...hence this blog following my quest to overcome my shopaholic tendencies to become a more conscious and sustainable consumer.


Wednesday, December 29

Gift Cards...What Gift Cards?

I am an expert at spending gift cards, and spending them quickly. I got a number of them this Christmas and have already managed to use up two of them and half of another. Here's what I bought in record time...

Dunkin Donuts ($30 value - $10 left)
  • 4 bags of ground coffee...they were having a sale! 4 bags for $20! Can't beat that. AND when you think about it, it's more responsible of me to spend some of my gift card on ground coffee b/c I can make it at home, which is way cheaper than using all the $$ up on cups at Dunks.
Amazon ($50 value - gonzo)
Barnes and Noble ($75 value - gonzo)

Yes, that's right I spent $125 on nothing but books. I'm a dork...now let's move on. So needless to say, I have a lot of reading to do! Good thing I have a very long flight in my very near future (ahhh, India is getting close!)

So anyways, I managed to snag up some fabulous deals on some good old fashion paperbacks and on some new ebooks. My ipad is like one giant ereader all wrapped up into one, so I can read Kinkle and Nook books on it. Love it! So here are some of them...

The next book club selection.


and I also got....
  • Ecology of a Cracker Childhood
  • Hot, Flat, and Crowded: Why We Need a Green Revolutoin - and How It Can Renew America
  • Green, Greener, Greenest: A Practical Guide to Making Eco-Smart Choices a Part of your Life
  • Plan B 4.0: Mobilizing to Save Civilization
  • By Their Father's Hand
  • The Hands of the Buddha
  • The Hangman's Daughter
  • Easily Amused
So like I said, I have just a few books to read.







Monday - Wednesday Damages (12/27 - 12/29)

Monday
  • $0
Today I cashed in one of the scratch tickets I got from one of Aaron's little brothers. It was worth...$400!!! Woo hoo! 
    Tuesday
    • $0
    Wednesday
    • $6.51 - Russo's (salad bar for lunch)
    • $10 - Nick's Pizza (dinner)
    It was a day of eating out...which means it's time to go grocery shopping.

      Monday, December 27

      Christmas 2010

      Aaron and I had a busy holiday, we went to western Mass to see his family on Christmas Even and then headed down to RI to see my family on Christmas Day.
      Here's some of the items I purchased/split with Aaron for his family and mine...
      • Amazon gift card - my brother (which he conveniently also got for me, hah)
      • Blue Sky Spa gift card - my mom and my Auntie Ree
      • Dachshund Krinkle ornament - my mom
      • Framed picture of Aaron and I - Auntie Ree
      • Pandora bead & bracelet from Greece - My Nan
      • Dunks gift card & some sort of lawn mower attachment - Dad
      • Pandora bracelet & Flying Pig Krinkle ornament & framed picture of Aaron and I from Greece- Aaron's mom
      • Computer games - Aaron's stepdad (Aaron bought them a new computer)
      • Heated motorcycle jacket - Aaron's brother
      • Video game & Celtics hoodie - Aaron's other brother
      • Framed painting from Greece & Body Shop Body Butter - Aaron's Aunt
      • Opa-Opa gift card (Restaurant/Brewery) & framed picture of us - Aaron's grandparents
      • Framed pictures of Greece & Dunks gift card- Aaron's Uncle
      I'm positive I'm leaving some stuff out, but it's just too hard to remember it all...I said it all got a little out of hand, I wasn't kidding.

      So every year my family (myself included) say we're going to cut back...in all regards, presents, food, the whole shpeal...we never do. This year was no exception. Here's what I hauled home (in no particular order), the poor car felt every mile.
      • $$$ for my trip to India
      • Scratch tickets (which I'm not sure...but I think one is worth $400!!! I have to take it in to see, I don't understand the world of scratch tickets and just assume I am reading it wrong)
      • Robe and bath set (YAY, now I don't have to take Maggie out in the morning wrapped in a blanket...it's a pretty safe bet that my neighbors think I'm insane)
      • Lots of body creams, soaps shampoos, conditioners, and general smell good accuturments
      • Candles
      • Gift Cards (Dunks, Shell, Amazon, Barnes and Noble)
      • Cold Hard Cash
      • Random baking and cooking supplies (such as non-stick reusable cupcake liners! and a new powdered sugar shaker, to replace the one that was stolen from me at work...still annoyed about that whole situation. Bunch of theives)
      • Underwear and sleeping clothes...the weirdest of these was a "nightgown" from my Aunt that she purchased with my mom...it's essentially lingerie...No, it is lingerie, which is super fun to open in front of your dad and older brother...who them immediately glare at Aaron, which my mom and Aunt thought was hysterical. Super. 
      • Renewal of National Geographic
      • Mad Gab (board game) 
      • Reusable shopping bag that folds up into a nice little package so it fits nicely in a purse
      • Food stuffs (sunflower seeds, cookies, candy, etc.)
      • Wine, and quite a bit of it
      • A "shopaholic" and "diva" coffee mug
      • Countless little stocking stuffers
      • Some of my Nana Juice's (who passed away) ornaments and Christmas decorations :)
      • A microderm abrasion machine thing (my Aunt is concerned about the future of my face, I need to be wary of wrinkling apparently, particularly b/c I work outside so much...very harsh on the skin people)
      • A weekend getaway in Stratton, VT for skiing and snowshoeing
      • A KITCHEN AID MIXER! (I did NOT see this one coming, my mom and dad gave me money for my volunteer trip, so I wasn't expecting any presents...so much for scaling back!)  

      Just think of all the sweet treats I can whip up with this thing! I mean I love my little handheld mixer, but this thing kicks it's little white a**.

      So appropriate

      LOVE this!

      Let's see how my knees do this ski season. That will NOT be me on the moguls, that much is certain.

      Strangely enough, I really didn't get any clothes aside from my socks and underwear, oh yes and don't forget the lingerie...who could forget that.  I think people have given up on that front. Hah. No worries, I do just fine filling my closets on my own.

      Weekend Damages (12/25 - 12/26)

      Saturday
      • $0
      Sunday
      • $0
      No need to be spending any money really when you just got a boat load of stuff and have a tank full of gas. Update on the loot to come...

      Sunday, December 26

      Monday - Friday Damages (12/20 - 12/24)

      Monday
      • $120 - Salty Dog Obedience (Dog Walking for Miss Mae)
      • $6.33 - iTunes
      After beating the free version of Angry Birds on the new ipad with no problems, it became clear that I was going to need to buy the full version. It's been a life changing experience...much like I imagine crack would be. I'm 100% addicted.


      Tuesday
      •  $0
      Wednesday
      • $35.01 - Hess
      Thursday
      • $40 - Local Ski Shop in VT (can't remember the name)
      So I picked up my free rental skis for the season from one of Aaron's friends who works at Mount Snow. The only thing I needed to add to the freebies was a set of poles, so Aaron and I dropped in on a local joint on our way down to Western Mass. He was kind enough to buy my poles (which were 50% off!) and I got myself a pair of fleece fingerless mitten-gloves for field work and Maggie walking. They have already proven to be the best purchase in the history of purchases.


      Friday
      • $0
      A Christmas update will be coming at you shortly! Stay tuned!!

      Tuesday, December 21

      Thursday - Sunday Damages (12/16 - 12/19)

      Thursday
      • $0
      Friday
      • $2 something - Dunkin Donuts (medium black)
      • $11.57 - Stop and Shop (lunch while at work...I was working behind a Stop and Shop)
      Saturday
      • $0
      Sunday
      • $10 - Station 5 Grill (local breakfast joint in Natick)
      Aaron and I celebrated Christmas on Sunday evening...yes I realize we're a week early. The thought of dragging gifts all over Mass and then down to RI to open however, just isn't something we're about to do. So we do our own little mini Christmas a week early. We made homemade mac-and-cheese and some roasted asparagus for our Christmas feast and then did our stocking, Maggie's stocking, and presents. 

      Here's the rundown of what I got Aaron and Maggie...and of what Aaron got me:

      Aaron:
      • Sleeping bag
      • Sleeping pad (to go under said bag)
      • Lululemon sweats (sooo soft)
      • A Golf GPS thing (FREE! Court got it as a promo and her Aaron didn't want it so she gave it to me for my Aaron)
      • Framed his Bentley and UMass Diplomas
      • 2 Krinkles (Mr. & Mrs. Squirrel)
      • Smartwool socks
      • Michael Jordan T-shirt
      • Travel toiletries kit
      • Various stocking stuffers
      Maggie's Stocking:
      • Toy - Green dog with Santa hat
      • Toy - Braided fleece reindeer
      • Chewies...for chewing obviously
      Me:
      • ipad (it's GLORIOUS!)
      • ipad case
      • ipad camera adapter
      • Pandora charm (cute little purse)
      • Patience Brewster "Long Leaf" necklace (YAY!!! As you know...she's my favorite)
      • Ice coffee cup (no more plastic throw aways for me!)
      • Lime green Lululemon legwarmers
      • Lululemon yoga top
      • Butane refills (for the plethora of lighters that are out of fuel around here)
      • Leather conditioner for my horribly dirty wallet and couches
      aaannndddd probably some other stuff that I'm forgetting right now, not because I didn't love it, but because Aaron went a tad overboard this year and there was a lot of stuff! He has more of a shopping problem than I do when it comes to Christmas!

      That's all for now. I'll have some more to report after Christmas...as far as what I got for everyone. I can't post it yet b/c then they'll know what they're getting!


        Wednesday, December 15

        Monday - Wednesday Damages (12/13 - 12/15)

        Monday
        • $0
        Tuesday
        • $46.82 - CVS (Stocking Stuffers)
        • $300 - Blue Sky Spa (presents for family)
        • $57.25 - Barnes and Noble (various games for various gifts)
        Wednesday
        • $0
        AND I AM OFFICIALLY DONE WITH ALL CHRISTMAS SHOPPING!!! I so totally deserve one of these....

          Monday, December 13

          Weekend Damages

          Saturday
          • $38.05 - Petsmart (Maggie Food)
          • $37.97 - Roche Brothers
          Sunday
          • $50 - Opa Opa (gift card for Aaron's grandparents)
          • $80 - Dunkin Donuts (gift cards for my dad and Aaron's uncle)
          So I know you're probably wondering why I didn't just get the food while we were at Petsmart last night, but we ended up running back b/c Maggie was showing signs of another UTI :( I figured the Banfield Clinic in the store would be quickly and easier than our vet, which is a bit of a drive. Plus it's not like we haven't been through this before. Huge mistake, I will never go back to that clinic. They did the urine test to see if she did in fact have a UTI, which she does, and prescribed a 3-week course of antibiotics. One would think this would be a relatively inexpensive trip...WRONG. The total was somewhere in the order of $370 (Aaron picked up the tab...I'll probably roll half of this into my  next rent check)! Our vet did the exact same tests AND biopsied the lump on her leg for around $100 less. Not to mention I just trust Sudbury Animal Hospital much more.  When she has to go back for a follow up in a month, we're going to our vet...no way we're taking her back to Banfield.


            Thursday & Friday Damages (12/9 - 12/10)

            Thursday
            • $29.96 - Hess
            Friday
            • $19.95 - Petsmart (Maggie nail grinding and chewies for her stocking)

            Thursday, December 9

            Nauseating November

            Eek so this month was a bit of a disaster as far as controlling my spending goes. Forget about falling off the bandwagon...I drove the thing off a bridge. It was ugly. However, let's keep in mind that two very large purchases were made...my flight for my trip to India (for charity, so honestly that shouldn't even count) and four new tires (also kinda doesn't count b/c I definitely needed them, as the flat I got on the Pike illustrated perfectly). PLUS I did the majority of my holiday shopping...oh yeah and then there were all the self-gifts, like the Biere Allary poster and the laser hair removal vouchers. Guh, I'm bad at this.

            So here's the breakdown...
            TOTAL: $2,554 (Gulp)


            Randomness: $1,087 (remember that amazing poster...well that had something to do with this)
            Travel: $512
            Gifts: $345
            Health and Beauty: $198 
            Groceries: $95
            Gas: $94
            Bars/Restaurants: $81
            Clothing: $57
            Maggie: $48
            Entertainment: $32
            Coffee: $5 (This may just be a personal best for me!!!)

            Wednesday, December 8

            Love

            Most fabulous Sony Boutique on Beyond the Rack...don't worry I didn't buy any. They were $899 a pop (AND I'm running out of wall space over here).

             
             My Johnny :)

            Hmmm Dylan.


            Monday - Wednesday Damages (12/6 - 12/8)

            Monday
            • $0.85 - Pop Tarts from Vending Machine at Work (super nutritious breakfast)
            Tuesday
            • $0
            Wednesday
            • $46.83 - Roche Brothers

            Monday, December 6

            New Found Shopping Sites for the Dealsmiths Out There

            A new friend from book club (yes, that's right...I said book club. Don't judge me, I like to read) invited me to two new shopping sites that I was somehow unaware of.

            HauteLook and Beyond the Rack.

            Both excellent sites. I have to say, the more of these sites I am introduced to, the worse the old shopping addiction gets. I have to say though, I think a lot of is has to do with passing time while I'm at work. I mean, I don't smoke so it's not like I get up a gazillion times a day for a smoking break...instead I peruse a plethora of shopping sites and when time permits read a bit of the news. I mean it's better than smoking, no?

            Weekend Damages (12/4 - 12/5)

            Saturday
            • $61.86 - Nordstrom Rack (bought $111.86 worth of stuff, but had a $50 Groupon)
            • $9.98 - T.J.Maxx (my very first pair of leggings, most comfortable things ever...and just in time for the holidays)
            • $16.50 - Old Navy
            • $37.84 - Michael's (presents for my little for Hanukkah and the goods for chocolate making) 
            So clearing I did a little shopping this weekend, and yes...most of it was for me. It started out with me going to Nordstrom Rack to use the Groupon I got a ways back. I thought that I would pick up a pair of leggings and a sweater for the Holiday Party that I was going to that evening. Weeeeell it quickly spirelled out of control from there. Granted I got some GREAT deals! At the Rack alone I got a pair of Sevens (jeans), a shirt (which I'll be wearing to the Holiday Parties next weekend), little squishy pads for the back of shoes, and two tanks. Quite the haul!

            So why didn't I stop there you ask? Well I was really looking for a pair of leggings but sadly they didn't have any that were enjoyable (clarification: they were essentially see-through...no thank you). So then I had to go on a hunt, and I found some other items along the way, obviously.

            I am the worst at controlling my shopping...the worst. 

            Sunday
            • $28.00 - Parking Garage in Boston
            • $6.00 - The Charles Playhouse (Shear Madness Show with the Little)
             Free tickets through the Boys and Girls Club.

            Saturday, December 4

            The Weeks Damages (11/29 - 12/3)

            Monday
            • $12 - Groupon
            I got tickets for two to the Kendall Square ice rink for my little and I from groupon today. Finding fun things to do that won't completely bleed me dry to keep the two of us busy through winter is going to be a bit of a challenge. So ice skating should be interesting, especially considering I am terrible at ice skating.


            Tuesday
            • $512.20 - American Airlines
            AND I'm GOING TO INDIA!!!! Flight purchased! Woah, I'm really going.
            I had a credit on my AA account, which is why the flight only cost me $512, clearly a ticket to India is a tad more than that...about $600 more.


            Wednesday
            • $18 - Groupon (for car washes at Scrub-a-Dub...where we go anyways...I should also note that my car is filthy right now)
            Thursday
            • $42.36 - CVS (lots of randomness)
            • $2.00 - Dunkin Donuts
            Friday
            • $34ish - Shell (gasing up Veruca)